DATING TIPS

TELLING HIM YOU LOVE HIM

2008-07-09T17:06:00.000+01:00

Is it a crime for a lady who has come of age say to a man she truelly love(I LOVE YOU)
You dreamed of meeting that special man all of your life. You pictured how you would feel and how great it would be to say those three magical words, I love you. Yet, now that the time has come, you are scared.
You are not scared of being rejected. You know your man loves you as much as you love him. You are scared that it may not be romantic or it may not be memorable.
First, relax. Remember this is your life and not a television show or a romantic movie. Fireworks will not automatically explode after you say these special words, I love you. Your man is not even expecting it.
What is he expecting?
Romance? Fun? For you to be yourself?
Now relax, take a deep breath and see if any of these ideas will help inspire you with ideas on how to say I love you to the man you love.
Idea Number one on saying I love you
Go the traditional route. Plan a wonderful meal. If you are a good to exceptional cook, you can do the work yourself. If you can't cook, buy the food all ready prepared for you. Be sure to set the table in a romantic way. Bring out the candles and your best china. Now play some soft background music. Allow the mood to linger and then when the time is right look into his soulful eyes and say I love you.
Idea Number two on saying I love you
Do you and your man have a special spot that you share? It could be the place you met or where you went on your first date. This special place could even be an amusement park or where your favorite team plays.
Visit this place together. During the normal conversation, stop. Take your man's hand. Look deep into his eyes. Tell him how much you have been enjoying the night and finally tell him that you love him.
Idea Number three on saying I love you
Wait until the end of the next perfect date with your man. Kiss him goodnight. Make sure it is a long, steamy kiss. As you linger, still standing within his arms look at him in the eyes and say I love you.
Idea Number four saying I love you
Okay, you are not brave enough to say the words straight out, you need a little help. You could try these shy approaches.
Send your guy some flowers. If you think your guy is the type of guy who would appreciate you sending them to his work, do so. He might like the idea of his coworkers seeing how lucky he is. Now attached a handwritten note and say something cute like, just trying to get the guts to say I love you.
If the flowers are still a bit much for you, try sending your guy an ecard. You can find tons of these across the internet. Find one that has great eye appeal. Just make sure it isn't too funny and it states the words I love you.
Saying I love you to this man who you feel is the man of your dreams can be liberating. It can even help to open the doors to the future, hopefully your bright future with him.
Express yaself my queens..

FRIENDS OR LOVERS

2008-07-09T15:18:00.000+01:00

There are so many things that we actually need to strenghten out before we conclude on going out for dates, its one thing to go out with your lover and its another to go out with a friend.
Any of us possesses the nature of a social being. We need people to interact with, talk to, laugh along, argue with, love and be loved. Therefore dating is so popular.
There are several kinds of dating. Going out with a specific person or in groups to enjoy each others company is considered dating. We may go out to movies, sports activities, parks, or merely lazing around in the house. There are prepared dates and spontaneous dates. There are also dates that are satisfying and others becoming not so cool in the end. In short, dating is a social activity where a person has the opportunity to grow in the presence of another.
Being in a company is one opportunity to know a person or persons at a deeper level. Meeting them two or more times may develop the interest and the natural bond. Some end up becoming good friends for a lifetime, others mere acquaintances for some time and others end up having romantic relationships.
In this dating phenomenon, when can we identify if it is just a friendly date or a romantic date?
The following facts may help determine which is which:
1. Friendly date
=The level of interest and curiosity is on the general activities of the person. For example, =families, hobbies, skills, talents, and favourites
=Both parties are not self-conscious of how they look and behave
=They can talk anything and about everything without feeling awkward on how the other party will respond
=A friend can easily say no to a date if he or she does not want to go
=Setting or location does not necessarily have to be fancy
=There are no sparks or chemistry going on and it is just a fun of being together
=No effort of setting the best foot forward to prove that you can be likeable
=No physical attraction present
=No expectations of becoming girlfriend or boyfriend
2. Romantic date
=There is an added pressure to look good on a date
=Compromising what you really want over the desires of the person you asked to go out with
=Not able to say no to the person you like especially when he or she asked you out
Has become more concerned with personal issues (example: daily activities, whom they get to spend time with, etc.)
=You give your full attention and focus to what he or she says
=You make extra effort to get a fancy place and set up a romantic tone
=There is physical attraction
=You think about him or her over and over again once you get home

There is not so much importance why one needs to be conscious whether he or she went out for a friendly date or a romantic one. The only concern though would be for both parties to be aware of any intentions or expectations that may potentially arise later on. At least both will have a clear cut understanding of their social status in their so-called budding relationship. Identifying which is which will spare them from getting confused whether they are only friends or are indeed romantically attracted to each other.

DO YOU ENCOUNTER PROBLEMS IN YOUR DATES?

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another and that includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won't happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them.
Little white lies and false fronts won't work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don't make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway.
If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Establishing eye contact with your date will let him know that you are listening. Although you're not interested in his babbling, just look straight at him.
You'll know when would be the right time to talk. Tell him things about your wonderful self. Make your stories long. If it seems that he's not listening, maybe he is not really interested in you. Most men do not like silent girls.
Sometimes, it's not a bad idea to make the first move. If you feel that your date is too shy, make the first move. It may help him step up then take over from there. Don't be scared to take risks and turn it into opportunities!
Sometimes, most men can't read signs. They might just be inexperienced or simply stupid. On the other hand, maybe they're both.
Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you and do so promptly. You don't want to appear that desperate.
Don't give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you

So brase up for the best, cause you can achieve all you want.

DATING TIPS

2008-07-09T03:09:00.003+01:00

On this site i will be sharing everything you need to know about getting the man/woman of your dream. just follow me while i lead.
so many peope have over the years ask me several question concerning how to get there relationship forge ahead. well various answers has been given them, but a very recent question was thrown to me and i felt i should share it here.
Alice 24years banker asked me,
Alice: HOW CAN I WIN MY EX BACK
After some series of questions i responded,
MY RESPONSE:
A major impact to your life comes when a sudden break up with your boyfriend occurs. Just yesterday you had a boyfriend whom you love very much and thought that he felt the same was as well. This can be extremely difficult to move on from, it can take weeks even months to overcome this devastation. I take it that if you are reading this, it is a fairly safe assumption that you don't want to stay in this rut for that long, and that you like to get on with your life very soon. I have for you a few tips that can help you with getting your ex boyfriend back.
1.A fantastic way to make your ex want you back is to ensure that anytime he sees you, that you don't portray to him that you are devasted. Make him see you at your best, a strong woman that doens't "need" him to make you happy. Men definately are more attracted to a strong, independant woman. One way to show him this, and this is probably the easiest for any woman to do, Always look at your best! The way that you look tells people a lot about how your life is. By looking your best, believe it or not, you control the first impressions that people have of you when they see you. Even if on the inside you're falling to pieces, on the outside you look like a million dollars.
2. The second tip that I can provide is to not become a shut in. Go out have fun, make sure people see you when you're out. If you stay inside and don't associate with anyone, how can anyone see that you look like a million dollars. Makes sense, right? You may not run into your ex, but surely in this day in age you'll run into one of his friends, or one of your friends knows one of his friends. Well you get the picture. Word of mouth travels fast. He'll for sure hear from someone that they saw you out and that you didn't seem to upset and that you looked fantastic. This will drive him crazy and he'll start tinking of you, guaranteed.
These are definately appearance tactics, but you'd be surprised that the more you do these tactics the better that you will truly feel about yourself. The better you feel about yourself then the easier it will be to present a positive front.
I recommend these tips to anyone and especially someone that has just gotten out of a breakup, whether you are desperately trying to get back together with an ex or just trying to live your life and move on from the relationship. You CAN GET THROUGH THIS, don't give up.

I really want to believe this writeup will help so many people out there.
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WHY MOST MEN HAS PREMATURE EJACULATION

Premature ejaculation has become a prominent phenominal among young people these days and so many dont really know what to do about it, so what actually is premature ejaculation The definition for premature ejaculation is vague at best. It could mean either ejaculating before intercourse, or just as you begin intercourse, maybe a couple of minutes in. Some even define intercourse as finishing before your partner! How many times have you wished you could have more staying power? You aren't alone. In fact, the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) reports that 30% of men ejaculate prematurely.
Premature ejaculation is not a disease, but simply a sexual condition. While premature ejaculation in no way physically harms the sufferer, it does affect his relationship with his partner, who he likely leaves sexually unsatisfied. This in turn will affect his self-esteem, which leaks into other aspects of his life. But lucky for you, there is a cure. You can't just be expected to control this function though, without a little bit of help. You've probably tried thinking of something else other than sex, which may work but all it does is decrease the intensity of your orgasm. Or, that you need to turn to prescription medication which is both pricey and rife with side effects. Both are completely unnecessary. Instead, we'll teach you a few easy tricks so you can enjoy sex for longer.
Learning how to start and stop is your most effective tool in preventing early orgasm. That is, while having sex recognize the moment before you orgasm, and hold off. It should first be practiced during masturbation, and then incorporated with a partner. Learn to find that moment right as you build towards orgasm, which is signalled by a tingling feeling. Stop any stimulation once you feel this tingling. After the sensation subsides, resume stimulation. See how many times you can do this, then let yourself orgasm. It may sound easy, but you'll see it's far more difficult than it sounds. You may find that you will occasionally lose the strength of your erection - this happens occasionally. Just continue as you were before. Once you are ready for partner sex with this routine, try caressing and kissing during these little breaks.

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